Massage for Man's Neck.

Pain In The Neck

It seemed like a long time to be dealing with this. The truth is, I have been complaining about it for years.

I've had tests, xrays, nerve conduction, MRI's and never any results that solved the problem.

Recently, it had gotten worse so I went to my doctor with a list of about a dozen things that was wrong with me.

Nothing fatal. Nothing life threatening.

Still, life was not the same.

When you reach 50 everything changes. It is a label, a neon light that goes with you wherever you go.

Everything you felt at 49 was a concern. Everything you feel after 50 is simply classified as "getting old."

I am 58.

Add to that I have Fibromyalgia and I can never have another symptom that won't be labeled as age or fibro.

I think doctors stop listening and friends your age always have something worse than you.

"I have this pain in my shoulder."

"Pain? You want to know pain? I have such pain you could never handle it."

I have been blessed. I have never been in the hospital or had an operation. I really have not had any terrible diseases. So, having to go to a physical therapist is a first for me.

"How long have you had this pain in your neck?" he asked.

"Well, my wife and I have been married for 20 years," I replied. "Oh, you mean this pain."

He laughed and I knew I had the right guy.

So, what great lesson have I taken from this experience?

Are you ready?

In order to ease this discomfort in my neck, I need to stretch it.

The stretching will appear to cause more discomfort, but doing so will eventually relieve the pain and strengthen the muscles.

Your discomfort in life right now, no matter how painful, can only be relieved when you stretch beyond your present circumstances, causing temporary discomfort, but eventually strengthening your stance.

I need to stick out my neck in order to relieve the pressure and pain.

I will never find relief without creating more discomfort.

One more thing. I really love MY "pain in the neck!"

"I believe in You!"
~ Bob Perks ~

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